Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Busy Hands

Twice in two days Breeley offered to open a door or carry something because I had "busy hands." I can't imagine what she was talking about!?!


This picture is from my first day back to work after Zack was born, but this is pretty typical of my load every time I leave the house! At this point, I've ditched the breastpump bag, and Zack (not pictured above) now walks himself to the car most days, so I can usually do it in one loaded trip. I thought it was very clever of Breeley to come up with her own term for "pack horse," and sweet to offer to help! She's definitely had enough opportunities to see Mommy with "busy hands"!  

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Festive Fourth

We had a fun-filled and festive 4th of July weekend. I love celebrating the 4th of July because 1) I love America and feel so fortunate to be a US citizen!, 2) I enjoy picnics and get-togethers with family or friends, and 3) it's something to celebrate without having to spend money.

On Friday we stopped by the kids' daycare so they could participate in "The Parade," which consisted of all the classes walking through the halls shaking the various noise-makers they'd made, and then marching around the multi-purpose room chanting "U-S-A, U-S-A" and singing happy birthday to America.



Zack's class made these special shirts for all of them to wear. The colors mixed and they came out mostly purple, causing him to be called a girl twice at the grocery store. That has never happened before so it had to be the shirt!





We then met Brian's aunt, uncle, and cousin at a local shopping complex. Lauren has a summer job at a camp near us, so it was great meeting up with them while they were visiting. We ate lunch and browsed in a couple stores, including a fun toy store. Jerry practiced his future grandpa skills and spoiled the kids! He pushed Zack around in the stroller and then bought him two balls that Zack had carried around the whole store. He let Breeley pick out two little wind-up toys and she finally settled on a monkey that does flips and a caterpillar that crawls. Thanks Jerry, Judy, and Lauren! We had fun, and the kids are still having fun with their toys at home!



On Saturday we went to the beach at Lake Murray. We'd planned on taking the boat to one of the sandy islands in the middle of the lake, but after several problems with the hitch, we realized that plan was too complicated and decided to try out the beach area. It was much nicer than expected! We got there right at opening and found a nice spot in the shade. We knew we would only stay a few hours, so we hadn't brought lunch and didn't need a shelter or picnic table, but many families had grills, chairs, umbrellas, watermelons, steaks, etc.! At only $3/car, it's a bargain for a day of fun! It's first-come, first-served, but anyone who got there at 10 a.m. opening could find a spot.



Zack jumped right in and loved the water from the start, but Breeley had to ease in a little. Both the kids played with sand toys right at the water, and at first Breeley would barely put a toe in the water, while Zack was sitting right in it. By the end of two hours, Breeley was running for our beach ball in [her] waist-deep water and seemed to love it.



It was a nice test of our beach-readiness. It was a lot of fun, but I think we'll hold off on a long beach trip for a few more years.Two hours was about all I could handle with obsessively reapplying sunscreen to wet skin, brushing sand from eyes, walking barefoot on rocks (I had brought appropriate footwear for myself and the kids, but somehow a certain husband ended up with my Crocs!), and making sure dare-devil Zack didn't plunge head-first into the water. The kids had a blast, and we did too, but limiting it to a half-day was about perfect to keep it that way.

That night we had a yummy steak dinner and a summer favorite, corn-on-the-cob! Zack LOVED it and refused to let us help him or cut it off the cob. I've heard the awful heat this year has hurt the corn crop, so we haven't had it nearly as much as most summers. (Brian has never been as big a fan as me, but he loves the white corn I've been getting at Publix. Yum!)


On Sunday, we headed out to our friends' house for a picnic. Ashley and Anna built a beautiful new house in the country, and it was a perfect place to celebrate our independence with good food, fun, relaxing, and kids everywhere! They had kiddie pools and we took our bounce house, perfect for a party with lots of little kids! I didn't end up with any good pictures, so I stole all of these from Anna's blog.
 

My favorite part was relaxing on their big front porch. It was a perfect SC evening.

It's nice to hang out with people who have young kids like us--they understand meltdowns, the need for boosters and sippy cups, and that 8:30 is "staying out late"! We are thankful for Anna and Ashley for introducing us to their friends and letting us hang out at their beautiful house!

On Monday, July 4th, we headed to Gilbert to the annual Peach Festival Parade, again with Anna and Ashley and their boys. Ashley is obviously a Gilbert parade veteran because he parked his truck the day before so we had a good spot to watch.  
 
I can't believe everyone is looking at the camera in this picture!

The Gilbert Peach Festival Parade is a classic parade complete with old fire trucks, antique tractors, beauty queens, politicians (even Governor Haley made an appearance), and lots of peach decorations! There were all sorts of participants, from an Absolute Auto Glass van (and other completely random marketing) to a group of hillbillies.

Levi and Breeley watching the parade.

Mason and Zack watching the Gilbert High School band. (My only complaint would be they needed more bands/music spread throughout - it was definitely Zack's favorite part!)


After the parade, we headed to the Country Store, where Ashley's parents sell all sorts of peachy products, including a delicious peach cidar! Yum! Before I could buy any of the fruits-of-honor, we were gifted with a whole bag of fresh peaches from McLeod Farms, which are seriously the best peaches in SC!! (Thanks, Ashley!)

We headed home and spent the rest of the day relaxing and enjoying our freedom. We are thankful to live in the USA!


Moving up in the school

Breeley and Zack have both moved up in their world; they transitioned to new classes at daycare. Breeley moved into the "Threes" the Monday after she turned three (it was just coincidence that it was right at her birthday; it doesn't always happen that soon because of space or development). Zack moved into the "Toddlers" on June 13 at 15.5-months-old.

Just like it must be when kids move up a grade in school, moving to a new class at daycare is exciting and reminds you that your little boy/girl is growing up! It's fun to see all the new things they are doing, and benefit from some of the new behaviors they learn. I know the "group conformity" mentality causes them to learn and do things they wouldn't necessarily do at home.

Zack transitioned to a floor mat for naptime at the end of March. It's crazy for me to think that a 13-month-old would stay on a floor mat. It's one of those things where you say, "okay, riiiight, you try that" but they said he only tried to get up once, then he laid right down and slept two hours the very first day! I still credit the floor-mat naps for the fact that Breeley still stays in her bed until we get her. She's been in a regular bed since she was 20-months-old, but she's been napping on a floor mat at daycare even longer, and the rule is that they have to stay on them until the teachers get them off. She has never, not once, gotten out of bed on her own, which means we've never done the nightly return-the-kid-to-bed battle.

Being in the Toddler class means Zack is now sitting at a table for lunch and snacks (it's tiny and so cute!), eating off a plate, drinking out of a little plastic Dixie cup, getting to play outside on the playground shared with the two-year-olds, and getting to have special days like Water Day. They also pretty much get rid of pacis in this class. Breeley didn't sleep with hers at naptime after one week in this class! (I should clarify that was at daycare only; she still had it at home, but it shows a decrease in dependency.) Zack has already gone at least one day that I know of because I found it buried in his bag at the end of the day. Here is a breakdown of Zack's first day in the Toddler class, 6/13/11:


Today I was mostly: happy [other options are sad, a little fussy, and tired]
Today I enjoyed the following activities: coloring, painting, dress up play, played outside, art (colored and painted different types of fish), and devotion (God's world is beautiful, Genesis 1) [other options are building with blocks and playing with cars]
Today we sang the following songs/fingerplays: Wheels on the Bus, The Itsy Bitsy Spider, ABCs, This is the day the Lord made, and Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star.
Today we read the following books: Colors, Numbers, I'm Just a Fish!
Food: AM snack - Goldfish and raisins; Lunch - school lunch (not sure what it was); PM snack - crackers and juice
Slept 2 hours; changed 3 wet diapers and one BM

So far, Zack has loved his new class and seemed to have very little trouble with the transition. He was only in there for a few hours a couple days the previous week before they moved him permanently. I think it helped that he knew one of the teachers because she pushed his Bye Bye Buggy and gave him crackers at the end of the day. Plus, it's so much more fun and grown-up in there compared to being with babies who are still crawling. The transition from Mobile Infants to Toddlers was the easiest for Breeley of all the moves to a new class.

Leaving for school on Breeley's first day of Threes class, 4/25/11:

Breeley has had a little trouble at drop-off in her new class, but otherwise seems to be doing well. She hugs my legs most mornings and we have to distract her or get her interested in something before I can leave. She does fine if they are out on the playground or at the bathroom. There are 19 kids in her new class, so she has the most trouble when all the kids are doing free play and the classroom is loud and chaotic. It makes me think she's a little introverted and has trouble with all the commotion/stimuli, so it's easier to ease into it with a smaller group. I try to be patient and stay as long as she needs because I hate to leave with her crying, especially because I know she really does like it there and is fine after I leave.

Breeley's new class is on the total opposite side of the building with all the other big kids. Being in the Threes class means eating lunch in the cafeteria, playing on the big playground with swings, hanging out with the older kids (including "after schoolers" at the end of the day!), going to the big bathroom with stalls, getting to be the line leader, and advancing even more with the preschool curriculum.

The first week she brought home worksheets where she was tracing and drawing Os (that just happened to be the letter they were on when she started), tracing and cutting different size circles, tracing wavy lines, circling the smallest baby animal in a row, and coloring the shapes that were the same as Mr. Square. It's been more of the same since then, although they follow a preschool schedule so they aren't doing as much in summer. I like that they send home all the worksheets from the days she's not there so I can do them with her at home and she doesn't miss anything. I usually go over the other ones too because she seems to like it and she gets extra practice.

We don't get a daily written report anymore, but we have a monthly schedule that includes things like "race around the playground," "nature walk," "tell stories," and a week-long "Sports Camp." Her normal report when I ask what she did that day is, "I play, color, play outside. I no hit or push or pinch anybody." (In the 2-year-old room, she always provided a report of who got in time-out, and we had lots of discussions about good behavior, so I guess it was ground into her head!) She also always tells me who was her best friend each day. Sometimes I get a list, followed by "eeeeverybody's my best friend." She'll also say, "[Best friend for the day] told me I was her/his best friend."

I thought it was funny when I found out Breeley's class does show-and-tell. I'm very interested in what the telling is all about. It's on Fridays so she's only been there for it once, and she picked a truck book to take and we put it in her cubby. Apparently when they sent the kids to get their items, Breeley just brought back her little backpack and all it had was sunscreen, so she showed her class her sunscreen! Again, I'm very interested in the telling part! I thought show-and-tell was funny for 3-year-olds, but I laughed out loud when I found out Zack class also does a "show-and-share"! He hasn't been there for it yet, but if he is, we'll definitely be taking a ball or balloon since those are his favorite things in the universe!

This is a long post, but that's what I get when I neglect to write individual posts at the time they actually switched to new classes, rather than several months later. Now they are both well-established in them and are doing very well!

Monday, July 4, 2011

Parents say the darndest things

Lately I've become aware of many things I say and do that I would have never realized. It's amazing how we are so in-tune to things our kids do, but don't always recognize our own little habits and mannerisms until our kids start repeating them.

Here are some of the things Breeley has been saying lately:
  • One more time, and that's it.
  • Oh, that's better.
  • Aw man
  • That's wonderful (pronounced "wonerful")
  • Oh no, I forgot my baby/purse/backpack/etc. (as she's walking to the car)
  • ...is what I saaaid.
  • (Annoyed) No, Mommy, I said ....
  • (Annoyed) I told you...
  • I'll [do that] in a minute.
  • He's not listening to me.
  • Be fiet [quiet]. I'm trying to talk to Reesey.
  • You're my best friend. 
I never realized how much I say "Aw man" until my kids pointed it out! (And, yes, that's plural kids because Zack says it too!) I also got a good laugh when she started saying she forgot things as she walked to the car! Guilty! (Although I've never forgotten my baby!)
 
Breeley has also been experimenting with contractions lately and recently used "ya'll" for the first time! I was so proud, especially since she used it correctly! :)
Bee - That truck is going down there. And Daddy and Breeley are going down there. (Babbling as we saw a truck head down the ramp to the Interstate... the Daddy and Breeley part was some form of her imagination...??)
Me - What about Mommy and Zack?
Bee - Ya'll are going down there too. And Reesey. 
Her contraction experimentation has been funny. She's made up a few words, such as "amn't," which is not surprising since she often messes up her "to be" verbs with the "to do" verb tenses. She's also been trying to use words that relate to time such as before, after, yesterday, tomorrow, and days of the week (usually Wednesday or Saturday), but these are not often used correctly at this point. Almost everything is scheduled to be done "after my nap" because she calls both naptime and bedtime her nap (but in the morning she says, "I slept a long time for my nap").

Breeley has also picked up different parts of our accents and speech patterns. I started noticing when I ask questions, she answers in full sentences rather than just a yes or no. For example:
"Breeley, do you like going to the zoo?"
"I do," and sometimes, "I do. I like the zoo."

"Breeley, is Zack playing in the toilet again?"
"He is." 
This idiosyncrasy was so glaring, I started paying attention to my responses to her questions.
"Mommy, is Daddy fishing?"
"He is."

"Mommy, does Daddy like to fish?"
"He does." 
She totally got it from me!! It is so amazing the influence we have on our kids without even realizing it. Also, it's crazy how much I'm learning about myself!

Zack got off to a slow start with his verbal communcation. I was a bit worried around 12-13 months because he was still not saying "mama" and "dada," or anything else, but I think a lot of it had to do with being plagued by a few ear infections between 11-13 months, as well as having a sister who steals his focus and won't let him talk! Whenever we tried to get him to repeat sounds (which, face it, was much less often that we'd done it with Breeley), she'd loudly cut in and say, "I can say it. BABABABABABABA," and then all his focus would turn to her. Also, I've realized that translating baby talk is not my strong suit. (I guess it's my literal brain - gagahoojkadfkadk just doesn't sound like "drink" to me!) Thankfully, I recognized starting with Breeley that my kids do things at their own pace--which is sometimes at the middle to end of average--when it comes to developmental milestones. (They are also ahead on some things, like working 25-piece jigsaw puzzles before age 3, or mastering the pincer grasp at 7 months.) I also realized that reading anything about a speech delay in boys will freak you out, so I put a quick stop to that.

Anyway, my early concerns have vanished as Zack seems to be on track. Many of his first words have actually been two-word combinations, so here's a list of some things he uses most often:
  • Thank you (first word/s we recognized)
  • My! (short for mine; used most-often)
  • No (fell down on the frequently-used list when he learned "My")
  • Here (pronounced he-ya - hilarious!)
  • Ball
  • Aw man (used second-most often)
  • Good job
  • Hey/hi
  • Bye bye
  • Go pee (to Reesey)
  • No, bad! (to Reesey)
  • Get down! (to Reesey)
I love watching the kids do new things and reach new milestones--Zack trying to jump is super cute!!--but language development is my favorite. Hearing how and when they say new things keeps us laughing even after they say it. I love having a glimpse of the world as they see it... and getting a glimpse of myself at the same time.